Good Lord 'n Butter, Woman -
Just how many companies that have suspended royalty payments are we talking about!? And what are the names of the companies?
No legitimate oil and gas company would ever suspend payments of royalties based upon a rumor or even word-of-mouth information of somebody's having passed away. It just isn't done that way.
Question for you: Is this simple royalty Interest, like an ordinary land owner or mineral interest owner would be receiving because they leased their land? Or is it Working Interest, where Mr. Laird invested in a well or series of wells and is a partner in the drilling?
Also, Patty, if you would be kind enough to allow me to ask: I can't recall whether you have told us who Mr. Laird was to you. Was he your husband? Your Father? I pray that I am not perceived as inappropriate in asking, but I just don't recall where you might have commented on that part.
Where is this meeting on Tuesday?
Wherever it is, even if it just a conference call, I think you should have an experienced Oil and Gas Attorney representing you. If you don't have one yet, you might want to consider postponing the meeting until you do. If it is a meeting "in person", then I would absolutely insist that you do.
If you want to go ahead with your meeting, then I advise that you go into it as an "information gathering effort" only and come out of it that way as well.
And DO NOT agree to sell anything. DO NOT sign anything.
I have a cousin who's father passed away a number of years ago that didn't know any better and the "Bad Guys" bought his interest in some 100+ wells out for what amounted to the monies held in suspense.
They "purchased" his interest for what amounted to his own money... and clipped him for what I estimated at the time to be something like $6 to $8 million dollars' worth of properties.
You need to move forward in very small, cautious steps until you learn a whole lot more about what it is that you have inherited.
Hope this helps -
Charles